Raising a Farmer

Alot of work but always room for laughter

A wedding on the Farm

on September 24, 2016

This past May, Nathan’s younger brother and his bride stood before their wedding guests on our farm.  Surrounded by friends and family they spoke their vows each had written to each other.  It took a small army to get the farm wedding day ready;  helping weed, mow the lawn, cleaning out the those “some day ” corners on a farm, cleaning out the shop, helping with chores and getting the house cleaned for the wedding party.  Nathan and I are forever grateful for all the help we had and there is no way we would have been able to do it on our own.

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As Nate and I were making mental notes all winter and spring of what needed to be done for the up coming nuptials, the dreaded question, “What if it rains?”  was always asked.  We had plan B in place.  The wedding would be in the shop if it would rain, but the ever optimistic in me.  “It is not going to rain!”

Wedding week had a arrived, scattered showers blessed us through out the week and radar for Saturday was “Scattered Showers”.   Friday evening as the wedding party arrived for practice and the groom supper we set out chairs ready for the wedding the next day.  I think Nate and I wore out our weather app for how many times we had checked it.  “What does your phone say?” was a question for everyone who came into the yard.  Wedding morning came with final details.  Nate was finishing up chores, Everett was off with his Uncle Paul and cousin Katie for wedding pictures.  My aunt Julie was keeping Vivian occupied and neighbors helping get bubbles ready and tables outside perfect with flowers.  About 2 hours before the ceremony it began to mist.  Family gathered in the backyard to take pictures.  Will the rain hold off?  Umbrellas began to come out.  I stood underneath a tree in our front yard with our car parkers (my brother, friends and neighbors) each comparing their weather apps,  “Brenda, you have to make a decision.”  I said I would give it till 2:15 before we start moving chairs into the shop enough time for the ceremony to begin at 3pm.

It broke my heart to have to tell Vanessa and Mark we needed to move the ceremony into the shop. The mist began to turn into rain.  My heart broke for Vanessa, a beautiful backyard wedding was planned and it needed to be moved to a farm shop.  My heart broke, our backyard was so pretty.  Just the night before after the grooms supper Nate and I sat in the chairs in awe of how beautiful our backyard looked,  thankful for all the help we had.  It was perfect.  Now it needed to be moved to the shop.  A shop with wet floors from the rain.  Vanessa along with their wedding party gathered in the house to stay out of the rain.  Flower girls and ring bearers played with Everett and Vivian’s toys.  About 20 minutes before the ceremony as guest began to arrive I remembered I still had Nathan and I’s wedding runner from our wedding (11 years ago) at my aunt Theresa’s house.  I quickly called her hoping she was home and able to bring it.  She made it just in time. img_05181

 

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As Nate spoke to Mark and Vanessa I stood in the back filled with joy and love.  Love to Nate the man I married and the wonderful life he has given us.  Nate also gave some advice.  “When Vanessa makes a meal never ever say, ‘That’s not how mom used to do it.'”    img_0458


One response to “A wedding on the Farm

  1. Marilyn Swenson says:

    You all were such troupers as you made the day special, rain or not! A memorable day, for sure!

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